No need to be sorry. I didn't consider that to be harsh in the least!
And there is much on which we agree. It's just a theory, that because college bands are often so huge, the more simple formations create a huge impact. I think that college directors are just more accustomed to that.
It is only a personal preference for lots of movement, difficult drills, and visually stimulating shows. And standing still on an impact definitely adds more effect to the show, but when there's lots of it, as a spectator, I find I start looking at the clock, no matter how beautiful or intense the sound. Simply put, in marching season, I enjoy watching lots of marching.
I imagine it is really hard, as a high school band director, to decide which direction to take. Because, like you say, there is no judge specifically watching the difficulty of a show, it might be tempting to go slightly easier. I really prefer the high school band venue, where you often see really unique themes and interesting drills. The variety that we were treated to last Tuesday was fabulous. I just would never want to see that go away. And I think the band students learn much and grow with the more intricate drills and music.
Another thought I had, was that those kinds of risks would be more richly rewarded if, rather than having so many college-level judges, that DCI judges were in the mix. I don't know if that is even a possibility, or how that would affect the judging of woodwinds, etc.
High school marching band rocks! I bet everyone here can agree to that!