There is life after band.
Granted not that good of one, but it is still there sort of.
I'm also sitting in my office after work hours, posting on a Band related website, almost 5 years out of high school. But to be totally honest, I like the fact that I have become a spectator rather than a performer because: No hard work. I sit on my **** and just soak it in.(wishing I had some beer, and yes I would get tanked at BOA...but no streaking............till finals)
While I was in band, I was some what active in my church youth group and various things here and there when I remembered when the club meetings were. Nine times out of ten I just didn't care. I knew what was ahead of me so I didn't need to pump up my collage applications nor a resume.