Don't ever be afraid to ask, "how can I help?" Or say " they've got enough people"....believe me, there's ALWAYS a job for you! Volunteer, feed them, hang up uniforms, do hair (bless you girl moms!), bring extra socks...do all the things. The more we do, the more they can focus on the music and I agree, they may not say it, but they love having you there. The days are long, but the years are short. Enjoy the ride, my friends!